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Haven Space

Haven Space

By Sara Perry

In this space you will find content on different sexual topics, inspired by my own practice as well as my coaching clients, as well as fetish and kink information explored shame-free. There will be sexual talk, some of which may be considered inappropriate, intense or even disgusting to you. However, this is a safe place for these conversations. This is REAL sex ed. And It's better late than never.

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Consensual Non-monogamy - A conversation with Britt Vasicek from Poly-want-a-podcast

Haven SpaceMay 04, 2020

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SSE The Interview!

SSE The Interview!

Hear all about the magic of Somatic Sex Education with Jessica Leiu from @spokencells!

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

May 15, 202121:08
Somatic Studies and Sara not showing up to work for 2 weeks

Somatic Studies and Sara not showing up to work for 2 weeks

Major fail the last couple of weeks as I sunk into the world of Somatic Sex Education and Sexological Bodywork. But what on Earth do those things mean? Tune in to find out.

May 08, 202122:31
Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus

I hope you didn't skip breakfast because I'm about to make your mouth water! Hear the history behind having your cake and eating it, too!

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Apr 17, 202123:23
Blowjobs

Blowjobs

Here are the basics about blow jobs with some facts that will blow your mind!

For information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Apr 10, 202122:03
My Pet Monster girls are one year older!
Apr 03, 202127:41
Sinning

Sinning

Have you ever thought the seven deadly sins could be... well... the seven sexy sins?


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Mar 27, 202122:59
Virginity Fetishes

Virginity Fetishes

I know it's your first time hearing this... but this is probably the one fetish that is actually potentially problematic.

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Mar 20, 202128:16
Oculophilia

Oculophilia

I bet you never thought that you would be looking at this body part with different eyes, but here we are. Maybe I should say, an eye for an eye and the whole world... gets horny?

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Mar 13, 202125:44
Nasophilia

Nasophilia

Don't mean to rub your nose in it, but this fetish will certain have you thinking about something that's always right in your face. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Mar 06, 202122:32
Blood Fetishes and Hematolagnia

Blood Fetishes and Hematolagnia

When blood really is thicker than water, tune in to hear all about this fetish for everything blood related.


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Feb 27, 202125:37
Armpit Fetishes

Armpit Fetishes

Have you ever thought something was the pits, but in a good way?


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Feb 20, 202126:11
Odontophilia

Odontophilia

You'll be dying to take a bite out of this one!


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Feb 13, 202118:23
Intoxication and Somnophilia

Intoxication and Somnophilia

Come learn about how to explore the edges of consciousness in the most hallucinating forms of sexuality. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Feb 06, 202126:38
Speaking of Facial Feminization Surgery

Speaking of Facial Feminization Surgery

An interview with Dr. Regina Rodman, a facial plastic surgeon in Houston, Texas about her trans-inclusive practice, nuances in decision making and how you can advocate for trans medical access.

Follow her and her practice on IG @dr.rodman and get in touch through www.faceforwardhouston.com

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Jan 30, 202129:43
Gerontophilia

Gerontophilia

Once you go gray (haired) you never go back. Tune in to the heavily studied but slimly represented world of elderly fetishes.


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Jan 23, 202122:44
Narratophilia

Narratophilia

Ahhh roll up your sleeves and let's get down and dirty with the dirty talk. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Jan 16, 202123:10
Feederism

Feederism

Ever wonder why some people want to be fed to the point of exhaustion? This one is sure to leave a taste in your mouth, you may even enjoy it. 

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Jan 09, 202122:03
Sex Dolls

Sex Dolls

Well, hell-O Dolly! Let's kick of the 2021 Season all dolled up, and learn a little more about realistic dolls and those who like them- and like like them. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Jan 02, 202126:24
Sex Work

Sex Work

Real talk on the world's oldest occupation. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Dec 08, 202024:07
Trans Fetishes

Trans Fetishes

How to date trans people without being a jackass trying to just date trans people. That is it. No clever wording here. 

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Dec 01, 202024:02
Foot Fetishes

Foot Fetishes

I know you've heard of this one, but there is always more afoot. Let's just say, why are we getting off on the wrong foot when could be getting off to the right one?

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Nov 24, 202020:07
Furries

Furries

They're fun, they're frisky and they're oh so fluffy! Tune in to take a dive into the lives, loves and lessons of the furry community. 


For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Nov 17, 202021:14
Toy Play

Toy Play

Sex toys are all the rave, but is there more to those you crave? Learn them from a historical overview to the lock-box secrets, there are many more types than you can imagine. 

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Nov 10, 202032:03
Findom and Simps!

Findom and Simps!

Where's the money, honey? Tune in to hear all about this form of BDSM that is sure to leave you wanting more. 

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Nov 03, 202020:10
Cripping Up Sex: And Interview with Eva Sweeney
Oct 27, 202026:18
Macrophilia

Macrophilia

Ever feel like you are being stepped on by everyone around you? Tune in to this podcast on the fetish that is "larger than life" in more ways than one.

For more information on me and the work I do, including to purchase books or book a coaching session, please visit www.saraperry.com. If you would like to get members-only access to podcast extras while you support my work, check out my Patreon at www.patreon.com/havenspace.

Oct 20, 202017:08
Edging

Edging

We all like to play on the edge... so why not find out the easiest techniques?


Consider becoming a patron and supporting my work while receiving members-only content at patreon.com/havenspace.

Oct 13, 202019:07
Pegged and Proxied
Oct 06, 202025:53
Disability Justice

Disability Justice

Tune in for a little bit more about why we need pleasure access for all bodies, how it affects you, and what you can do about it!


Check out exclusive content, support my podcast and more at patreon.com/havenspace

Sep 29, 202024:33
We Need to Talk About Pedophilia
Sep 22, 202025:14
Gang Bangs and Trains

Gang Bangs and Trains

We are taking a train down to party town, breaking down the real gang culture and learning more about this fetish. 


Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

Sep 15, 202029:05
ABDL: The Interview

ABDL: The Interview

Forgive the difficult connection during the time of Corona and tune in to get the scoop on why acting childish is more than child's play from two littles themselves, Kalaya and Jewel. Explore more and join their community at FetLife.com/groups/120791 for vanilla play and FetLife.com/groups/161706 for dark play.

Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon-only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

Sep 08, 202021:27
Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers

Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers

With all the reason to take baby steps, the world of ABDL warrants more than one episode. Let's take a look at the psyche breakdown, the history and the preview for a talk with ABDL practitioners next week. 


Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

Sep 01, 202021:06
House of Kink: An Interview with Kalaya Reed

House of Kink: An Interview with Kalaya Reed

Tune in to hear all about the next evolution of kink communities, where they exist, how to join and how it can take your experiences to an embodied progress. This is just the beginning of the ride. 

Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

Aug 25, 202032:48
Chocolate for Vanilla Lovers (An outsider's look at BDSM)

Chocolate for Vanilla Lovers (An outsider's look at BDSM)

This is the first of what will undoubtedly be many episodes touching on BDSM, an introduction into the world of chocolate. This is milk chocolate, to put it mildly. If you've felt like a you didn't dare jump in, this one is the post for you!

Check out exclusive content, support my podcast and more at patreon.com/havenspace

Aug 18, 202024:03
Sounding

Sounding

We are getting a little deep, so lets talk about the internal ways one can be stimulated. This one is sure to leave you with a shy bladder. 

Aug 11, 202020:11
Squirting

Squirting

Have you ever felt like you were a fish out of water when it came to squirting and female ejaculation? This is the perfect beginners look to leave your thoughts swimming!

Aug 04, 202025:28
Poly part 2

Poly part 2

If you consider my interview with Britt Vasicek the start of the convo, this talk covers some of the misconceptions of polyamory, the dirty deets and the in-and-out of the sheets. 

Jul 28, 202032:48
Quarantine, Sex Toys and Porn, oh my!

Quarantine, Sex Toys and Porn, oh my!

An interview with Rudy Sanzibar on his rise to the top of the dildo pyramid, the birth of the Great American Dildo Company, making monster porn and do you really need any other reason to listen to this shit?  Check out my YouTube channel for a sneak at the dildo presentation mentioned in this podcast or help support me and my work while getting the full BTS video at patreon.com/havenspace.

Jul 21, 202028:29
Cuckolds

Cuckolds

When your kink is so flexible but common that it's mentioned everywhere from Shakespeare to Hamilton, there's gotta be something to it. Tune in to learn about watching your partner and what it has to do with ultimate control. 

Jul 14, 202023:54
Crossdressing

Crossdressing

Interview and conversation with a self-defined cross dresser, the ins and outs of his particular inclinations and dynamics, and how you can try it on for size. 

Jul 07, 202028:05
Shibari

Shibari

Let me show you the ropes on this ancient bondage play! 

Jun 30, 202022:20
Cum Play

Cum Play

Learn about about the origins of ejaculation play and ejaculation avoidance. 

Jun 23, 202027:50
Amputee Fetishes

Amputee Fetishes

Ever wonder why people love amputated limbs? Tune in for the details and fun facts!

Jun 15, 202027:49
Breaking up with Diet-culture Dating: A conversation with Playboy writer Dana Hamilton
Jun 08, 202031:33
MILF

MILF

Mother's Day has come and gone, but why do we love mothers so much? What makes them sexy and what does that say about us? Tune in to find out. 

Jun 02, 202019:56
Threesomes

Threesomes

Let's get down to the nitty gritty on the unicorn hunt and the very real unicorn poop (AKA residual drama) left behind.

May 25, 202023:29
Sex Parties

Sex Parties

Ever wondering what's the scoop on partying like Hugh Hefner? If you have, this episode is for you! How to get the right crew together or join in another's ball, the etiquette and the things to consider. 


Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

May 18, 202022:44
Breeding Fetish

Breeding Fetish

There is a whole underground and under-literal-covers world of sexy talk relating to getting pregnant. But how do you talk about getting knocked up without getting knocked down? The do's and don'ts of this sexy (and biologically necessary) dialogue.

Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

May 11, 202024:06
Consensual Non-monogamy - A conversation with Britt Vasicek from Poly-want-a-podcast

Consensual Non-monogamy - A conversation with Britt Vasicek from Poly-want-a-podcast

Join us as we freely discuss polyamory, the start and the work. 

Support my work at Patreon.com/havenspace ***for Patreon only video content***   For my blog, books and nonprofit contact go to my full website www.saraperry.com.

May 04, 202023:59